Sunday, April 11, 2010
Aiden's 7th Birthday Pirate Party!
This afternoon we had Aiden's 7th birthday Pirate Party! It was a hit. We had a friend come dressed as Captain Jack Sparrow and he did a fantastic job. The kids loved him. We had a Treasure Hunt where they found a spyglass, gold beaded necklaces, skull rings and gold coins. We played pin the patch on the pirate and decorated our very own pirate hats! There were 17 kids total and it was loud and crazy, but it went smoothly and the kids did well getting along and playing the games. We had Pizza for dinner and then had Pirate cupcakes and creemee for ice cream. I just love that Papa was nice enough to let us pretty much ransack the cafe and take over. We moved things around and made a huge mess, but it was a blast!~ We made sure we cleaned everything up afterwards!! Their treasure chest goody boxes had pirate tattoos, chocolate gold coins, pirate stickers, compasses, pirate crayons, a pirate ship to color, some more candy plus they had bandanas, eye patches, pirate hats and they decorated their own pirates. I hope all of Aiden's friends had a great time, I did but now I am exhausted!
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Easter
Today was such a crazy day! Poor Riley has had a fever that ranges from 101-104.7! He seems to be mostly fine, just a bit cranky. So we decided to only do Nama's (Wesley's mom) Easter egg hunt and have a little breakfast and then come home. So we got up, came downstairs at 5am to see what was in our Easter baskets. Aiden got some How to train your dragon stuff, he loved the movie! He also got some candy, outdoor stuff and some books. Calleigh got some more baby dolls, books and a new cup. Riley got some books, cars, a new cup and a few other small things. After that we got dressed (which was a HUGE battle) and went to Nama's house for breakfast and an egg hunt. There was A LOT of eggs scattered all over the place. We ended up with wayyyyy too much candy. The Easter bunny also visits Nama's house and brought some fun stuff for them there. It is hard because Aiden is getting to an age where he is starting to question the existance of such things as the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus. Thankfully, even though I could tell he was suspicious, he kept his thoughts to himself and let Calleigh and Riley enjoy the day! I really tried to get "nice" pictures, but nobody was up to attempting it, so I just went with the flow and caught what I could. The kids looked adorable!
After we left there we came home and Wesley came up here to see the kids for a little bit before naps and he had to work. The kids went down for a nap and then Nana (my mom) came to visit us in the evening to bring some more goodies for the kids. She stayed and visited for a little while before it was time to settle down for the night. Poor Riley though is still not feeling so great, he cried for almost 45 minutes while trying to go to bed. He never does that. He always just gives me a hug and a kiss, rolls over and is asleep within 10 minutes. Hopefully some rest helps and he wakes up fever free!
After we left there we came home and Wesley came up here to see the kids for a little bit before naps and he had to work. The kids went down for a nap and then Nana (my mom) came to visit us in the evening to bring some more goodies for the kids. She stayed and visited for a little while before it was time to settle down for the night. Poor Riley though is still not feeling so great, he cried for almost 45 minutes while trying to go to bed. He never does that. He always just gives me a hug and a kiss, rolls over and is asleep within 10 minutes. Hopefully some rest helps and he wakes up fever free!
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Lake George trip
In the beginning of March the kids and I went to The indoor water park at The Great Escape in Lake George with Nama. The kids had so much fun and it was a pretty good experience. They loved being in the water, once they got over the initial fear of being swept away or something. It was for two nights/3 days and we got to do so much stuff. Aiden got to meet his all time favorite character ever, Scooby Doo! He even got his autograph! Riley did not sleep well though. He has almost always slept in his crib with the door closed, not in an open hotel room with four other people! I have a lot of pictures, so bare with me!
Friday, April 2, 2010
Has it really been THAT long??
Wow, I guess it has been quite a while since my last post! I have been kind of in hiding from the world. I kind of shrunk into my own little shell and couldn't quite climb my way out.
The sad thing is that I am still digging my way out of this mood and this feeling. I thought taking a couple of days away to myself would help me clear my head and re-focus myself on what's important. I was wrong. I came back even more stressed out and feeling very frazzled over all the emotions I am going through. It was odd having time to do nothing or even to do whatever I wanted. I didn't have the daily routines to keep my head busy or to distract me from my thoughts. I missed the kids horribly and realized that I have GOT to get myself out there more, because I have so few people that I can call and talk to about things.
Life has taken so many turns over the past few months. The kids are doing okay. Things are tough and different and they know this. Their behavior has been all over the place from being clingy to being angry and everything in between.
Aiden has been having a harder time at school and on the bus, he has been acting out a lot. He is very excited about his 7th birthday coming up (I am excited for him, but I miss my baby boy!). He has baseball starting up very soon and then I just signed both him and Calleigh for SAMBA soccer camp this summer!
Miss Calleigh. Well, things have been extremely difficult with her. I believe I wrote about her ADHD diagnosis. We have had tough time finding her a medication that works with her. The first one we tried made her like a zombie, it completely wiped out any spunk and spark and made her almost focus too much (seems odd to think about it that way, but it did!). SO then we had some trouble with the pharmacy and the insurance and getting a prior authorization so she was without any kind of medication for about a week. Which was probably one of the craziest weeks ever. We finally got her on the second medication and it did the opposite of the first. She was hyped up all the time and almost euphoric. It was to a point though that she was doing unsafe things and thinking they were hilarious. We were at the store and she let go of the stroller and ran through the doors towards the road! Before you could just yell her name and she would immediately stop and know she was in trouble and come back. This time she ran faster and was laughing hysterically the entire time. She was almost possessed. It was odd. Then we went to a third one and once again had problems with the insurance company. She was once again without meds, but for almost 2 weeks. It was back-breakingly painful to watch. She was all over the place and I felt horrible. I know she mentally and physically just cannot control herself, no matter how hard she wants too. She is wired completely different than we are. We finally got her on her new medication, but it is like an anti-depressant: it takes about 3-4 weeks to build up in her system. SO it was a little rough at the start still, but now that it is starting to build up (she's been on it for just over 2 weeks) I can see a slight difference. She goes up and down throughout the day still but she is able to do the things she enjoys much easier. When it's working it's good, but when it's not working and we are in the "down" phase.....it is insane to deal with. I just hope for her own peace of mind we can get things smoothed out soon and she can be a happy, productive and lovable little girl I know she is!
Riley is doing good. He is growing so quickly and he talks ALL the time now. He is one that knows what he wants, that's for sure!! The two's have hit him in full force like it never did the other two. It is hard because he wants to be just like Aiden. He tries to do the things Aiden does (and not just the great things!). Aiden figured out the whole "I hate you" thing and now Riley repeats it to any and everyone when he is mad. He will say "I mad at you, I hate you". It is some time's very heart breaking to hear those words come out of his little cute mouth. I know he doesn't really understand and mean it, but it still cuts kind of deep when he says it. I am anxious to see how potty training will go with him. I am hopefully going to start that next month, but I am not sure if he will be quite ready for it.
And me. Well, I am breathing and taking as many steps forward as I can. It is extremely difficult though to make it through the days. I did get offered a job at Home Depot. I wish I could say I was thrilled about it. I am happy that I can bring in some of the income that the kids and I need, but I wish it was doing what I wanted to do. The hard part is that I am not sure what that is at this moment. I do have another interview at a greenhouse in Essex, which I think I would enjoy much much more, just not sure if I should take the risk to do a seasonal thing or go with the steady one for now. I am thinking I would like to get a job at the school so that I could have the same schedule as the kids. It would work out the best in my situation. It is hard with my qualifications...which is basically nothing. Needless to say I am really stressed out and don't know what to do with myself half the time! I'm hoping things turn around with the BEAUTIFUL weather we are having right now. It was so warm and sunny today and that is supposed to continue. I am going to try and do updated "nice" pictures of the kiddos. I got them some matchy matchy kind of outfits from The Children's place and I think they will look great, I might even hop into one of the pictures so I can get one of the four of us.
Well, I think my catch up has turned into a long rambling of stuff. Hopefully I can slowly crawl out of my hiding hole and get back into writing the blog. I have to pull myself together and move forward.
The sad thing is that I am still digging my way out of this mood and this feeling. I thought taking a couple of days away to myself would help me clear my head and re-focus myself on what's important. I was wrong. I came back even more stressed out and feeling very frazzled over all the emotions I am going through. It was odd having time to do nothing or even to do whatever I wanted. I didn't have the daily routines to keep my head busy or to distract me from my thoughts. I missed the kids horribly and realized that I have GOT to get myself out there more, because I have so few people that I can call and talk to about things.
Life has taken so many turns over the past few months. The kids are doing okay. Things are tough and different and they know this. Their behavior has been all over the place from being clingy to being angry and everything in between.
Aiden has been having a harder time at school and on the bus, he has been acting out a lot. He is very excited about his 7th birthday coming up (I am excited for him, but I miss my baby boy!). He has baseball starting up very soon and then I just signed both him and Calleigh for SAMBA soccer camp this summer!
Miss Calleigh. Well, things have been extremely difficult with her. I believe I wrote about her ADHD diagnosis. We have had tough time finding her a medication that works with her. The first one we tried made her like a zombie, it completely wiped out any spunk and spark and made her almost focus too much (seems odd to think about it that way, but it did!). SO then we had some trouble with the pharmacy and the insurance and getting a prior authorization so she was without any kind of medication for about a week. Which was probably one of the craziest weeks ever. We finally got her on the second medication and it did the opposite of the first. She was hyped up all the time and almost euphoric. It was to a point though that she was doing unsafe things and thinking they were hilarious. We were at the store and she let go of the stroller and ran through the doors towards the road! Before you could just yell her name and she would immediately stop and know she was in trouble and come back. This time she ran faster and was laughing hysterically the entire time. She was almost possessed. It was odd. Then we went to a third one and once again had problems with the insurance company. She was once again without meds, but for almost 2 weeks. It was back-breakingly painful to watch. She was all over the place and I felt horrible. I know she mentally and physically just cannot control herself, no matter how hard she wants too. She is wired completely different than we are. We finally got her on her new medication, but it is like an anti-depressant: it takes about 3-4 weeks to build up in her system. SO it was a little rough at the start still, but now that it is starting to build up (she's been on it for just over 2 weeks) I can see a slight difference. She goes up and down throughout the day still but she is able to do the things she enjoys much easier. When it's working it's good, but when it's not working and we are in the "down" phase.....it is insane to deal with. I just hope for her own peace of mind we can get things smoothed out soon and she can be a happy, productive and lovable little girl I know she is!
Riley is doing good. He is growing so quickly and he talks ALL the time now. He is one that knows what he wants, that's for sure!! The two's have hit him in full force like it never did the other two. It is hard because he wants to be just like Aiden. He tries to do the things Aiden does (and not just the great things!). Aiden figured out the whole "I hate you" thing and now Riley repeats it to any and everyone when he is mad. He will say "I mad at you, I hate you". It is some time's very heart breaking to hear those words come out of his little cute mouth. I know he doesn't really understand and mean it, but it still cuts kind of deep when he says it. I am anxious to see how potty training will go with him. I am hopefully going to start that next month, but I am not sure if he will be quite ready for it.
And me. Well, I am breathing and taking as many steps forward as I can. It is extremely difficult though to make it through the days. I did get offered a job at Home Depot. I wish I could say I was thrilled about it. I am happy that I can bring in some of the income that the kids and I need, but I wish it was doing what I wanted to do. The hard part is that I am not sure what that is at this moment. I do have another interview at a greenhouse in Essex, which I think I would enjoy much much more, just not sure if I should take the risk to do a seasonal thing or go with the steady one for now. I am thinking I would like to get a job at the school so that I could have the same schedule as the kids. It would work out the best in my situation. It is hard with my qualifications...which is basically nothing. Needless to say I am really stressed out and don't know what to do with myself half the time! I'm hoping things turn around with the BEAUTIFUL weather we are having right now. It was so warm and sunny today and that is supposed to continue. I am going to try and do updated "nice" pictures of the kiddos. I got them some matchy matchy kind of outfits from The Children's place and I think they will look great, I might even hop into one of the pictures so I can get one of the four of us.
Well, I think my catch up has turned into a long rambling of stuff. Hopefully I can slowly crawl out of my hiding hole and get back into writing the blog. I have to pull myself together and move forward.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
feeling frazzled, but found a boost.
I came across this while I was looking for an image to post of a busy, frazzled, frustrated Mom. I really needed to read this today, it was a great boost for me today!
www.suburbanpediatrics.org/ParentingTips.html
Often, as parents we are tired! Frazzled by never ending obligations, we sometimes neglect to fully engage with our kids. Try to enjoy the little parenting moments as they happen.
It’s OK to have a messy house sometimes.
It’s OK to get a sitter and go out.
It’s OK to stay home with the kids — watch a movie or play a game!
It’s OK to make cookies this year from frozen Pillsbury dough instead of homemade.
It’s OK to sit in the warm car at the park while you watch your older kids go sledding.
It’s OK to re-gift — its green!
It’s OK to give your kids less gifts ... they will appreciate them more.
It’s OK to say NO without giving a reason!
It’s OK to order pizza 3 times this week because life is busy — and the kids will actually eat it!
It’s OK to go to a party with baby spit-up on your shoulder and down your back.
It’s OK to let the kids have a little extra TV, computer or game time if it helps keep you sane.
It’s OK to let go of the parenting guilt! We all do our best.
It’s OK to not be perfect!
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Dr. Pleatman's Parenting Tips
1. Use the 20 second rule! As a parent you have 20 seconds to change your mind after you have already told your child “yes” or “no”. After 20 seconds changing your mind teaches kids that they can push you. No rewards for crying and begging!
2. If your child yells: “I hate you” because she does not like your rules, that’s good! It means you are setting appropriate limits. Remember, you are a parent, not a best friend. Kids need and like limits.
3. Teach your kids to think before they speak. A friend gave us a framed sign for our kitchen that reads:
Integrity:
• Is what I am about to say necessary?
• Is what I am about to say kind?
• Is what I am about to say helpful?
• Is what I am about to say the truth?
We use it daily with our kids!
4. Lies – Teach kids that if they lie (which they all will at some point) to “fess up” immediately instead of lying more to cover the first lie. To allow them to “save face” you might say: “Do you want to think about that answer and try again?” Tell them that we all make mistakes, but in the end honesty feels good inside!
5. Don’t over schedule young kids – they need time to use their imagination. Over schedule teens to keep them involved in their community and out of trouble.
Monday, March 8, 2010
playing with hats
Calleigh and Riley have been wearing hats around all the time lately, I happened to catch them in a good mood and they let me take some pics of them with the hats on. Calleigh's "totally dramatic" shirt says it all!
my silly boy!
This is what I found the other day. Riley had gotten the rabbit's water bottle off the cage and hid under the table. When I asked him what he was doing he said "I taste it Mommy, it's okay for 'dem". I swear this is not a normal thing to let him drink out of animal bottles!!
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